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Adventures in Anal Sex: Part 2
Not so long ago, you were promised a follow-up to our naughtiest article yet, Anal Sex: An Introductory Course. Hopefully you've been practicing the techniques you learned, using the most important ingredients: lube and Liberator Shapes! Anal sex exploration is not for the faint of heart, but when practiced by two consenting, open-minded partners, the results can be intense beyond your wildest fantasies. What makes anal sex so powerful is the combination of extreme physical stimulation and the mental arousal that occurs by participating in an act deemed exotic and forbidden.
Are you ready for Part 2 of our lesson? We have one further position to address. In this one, the receptive partner takes the lead (and it's about time!). Have the male partner recline upon the Ramp. Make sure he's fully aroused and very slippery with your lube of choice. You may choose to use a ribbed and lubricated condom to maximize your protection against STDs (see article 1 for more info on STD prevention and anal sex). When the receptive partner is ready, he or she mounts the reclining male, slowing guiding his penis into his or her anus. The receptive partner rests their knees on the Ramp, which really helps with his or her endurance. They can also raise and lower themselves on and off the penis at their own pace---a real benefit of this position. But this position takes courage and upper leg strength, so you may want to work up to it.
Don't worry, anal exploration is not all about penile penetration. Analingus, more commonly known as "rimming," or stimulation of the anal area with the mouth and tongue, can be even more pleasurable because of all the nerve endings in that area. As you might imagine, cleanliness is tantamount for this activity. What a great excuse to have a bath or shower together first! (Those who are especially concerned may want to have an enema first.) Or get creative with plastic wrap: take a piece of plastic wrap, double it up and lube a small area on both sides. Then cover the anal area and lick, suck, or play with your finger on the other side. You can also cut up the length of a condom or latex glove to create a barrier of a usable shape. You'll probably be surprised to hear that your partner prefers the slippery smoothness of these barriers to the direct contact of your finger or tongue. You can have the person being stimulated recline on the Ramp for added comfort. Or, have them raise their buttocks on the Wedge to facilitate access to the anal region.
Adventures in anal sex may be just what you are looking for to take your relationship to the next level. Just make sure you take Liberator with you---to help you and your partner explore these exotic acts with comfort and ease.
Dr. Robin Milhausen
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